Today is eleven days, which is one week and four days, of
the Omer. Netzach in Gevurah, Endurance in Discipline.
steadfast to negative judgements comes easily to me. Staying clear eyed and
focused on my path is eternally difficult. Every day, I battle my Yetzer HaRa,
my inclination towards destruction. I am trying hard to discipline my children
by first disciplining myself – gaining control of my feelings before reacting
to my precious toddlers. It doesn’t always work – sometimes, the bite of a
teething toddler is too much.
May we all resolve to endure, to accept our own faults and
keep moving forward toward the vision of ourselves connected to deep truth,
meaning, and love. This is the endurance in discipline I strive for.
my discipline endure this weekend – may I hold fast to my resolution to look
without buying at the LA Times Festival of Books — except for age-appropriate
kids’ books. Why yes, we do already own a treasure box of Harry Potter, Beverly
Cleary, and Roald Dahl…)
Today is ten days, which is one week and three days of the
Omer. Tiferet in Gevurah, Compassion in Discipline.
There is an inherent tension between those two words. I have trouble expressing pure compassion – selflessly accepting another on their own terms. I’m reading “Group Spiritual Direction,” by Rose Mary Dougherty, a Christian perspective on being present for another as they find their way to the Spirit within that flows through all of us.
theology of the book is not mine, it is helping me understand the principles
behind the (required) spiritual direction class I am in. And it clarifies for
me what it means to “channel and direct one’s strengths with
compassion.” (Paraphrase of the Meaningful Life Center meditation for
I didn’t accomplish a tenth of my agenda for the day. With
compassion, I am accepting the vicissitudes of toddler time and moving forward.
Today is nine days, which is one week and two days of the Omer. Gevurah of Gevurah, Discipline of Discipline.
Sleep deprivation has ruined my internal discipline. And my mind races with each passing conversation on Facebook. I am on a journey to discipline my use of Facebook.
How does time vanish in your life? Are you intentional
about every day’s journey? Do you keep a schedule and reflect on whether you
accomplished your daily goals?
Today I will sleep more, set a realistic schedule, and
stick to it. I will try to create a daily routine, and remember my children are
my disciples, not my wards.
Today is Seven Days of the Omer, which is One Week of the
counting of the Omer, Shechinah / Malchut of Chesed, Place of Dwelling /
Kingdom of Lovingkindness.
May I have
the courage to stand steadfast in my search for love, truth, meaning, and
holiness. May I always remember to cultivate the holiness within me, so that
from my inner essence I may approach other souls with love and honor.
May the indwelling of love within each of us radiate
throughout our interactions. May we accept differences with compassion and may
we stand firm for our core values.
Today is the sixth day of the Omer, Yesod of Chesed,
Bonding in Love.
of affection, camaraderie, and appreciation for the unique gifts of each soul
are needed to fully actualize love. I am grateful to experience these bonds in
my family of origin and my family of choice.
The Meaningful Life Center published the MyOmer app, the source of the meditation that begins my counting. Chabad published the Omer Counter – I prefer their version of the blessing that is supposed to accompany the counting when done at night.
According to strict Jewish law, you cannot say the blessing
if you don’t start counting on the second night of Passover without missing a
day. As Rabbi Finley, says every year, the Omer Police are woefully underfunded
– so engage with the tradition as you can because it is truly transformative.
This is the first year I have dedicated to completing the count continuously at
night and I have to say, it is helping me rediscover why I am in rabbinical
Today is the fifth day of the Omer, Hod in Chesed, Humilty
May I have the humility to lead with Chesed in all of my
interactions, especially with those closest to me. May I have the strength to
overcome the fractures in my character, the ingrained patterns of
destructiveness. May I always humbly remember that knowledge is less important
than right action.
Today is the fourth day of the counting of the Omer.
Netzach of Chesed, the Endurance of Love, the Triumph of Lovingkindness.
if selfless love is truly enduring. I wonder if enduring love is healthier when
it respects boundaries and creates boundaries to honor the one who is loving.
In the end, love will always triumph. Before I felt
comfortable expressing Jewish wisdom, I felt the truth of the musical, Les
Miserables: “To love another person is to see the face of God.” May
we all experience pure love, may it endure, and may we honor its triumph.
Today is the third day of the Omer. Tiferet of Chesed,
Harmony of Loving-kindness, Compassionate Love.
this sephira, we merge in perfect harmony the strict boundaries of Gevurah with
the overflow of love in Chesed. Selfless Love finds itself in Tiferet of
Chesed, giving though the other does not deserve our love, being of service
even when our service is unnoticed.
I strayed far from the path of Chesed. My rhetoric focused on acknowledging
only the struggles of people who walk my path and think in my logic patterns.
May I always remember the souls who surround me are on their own journeys, with
their own stumbling blocks. May I focus more on removing those impediments. May
I always remember we each are doing our best. May I deepen my understanding of
compassionate love and may I express it to everyone I meet, whether in person
Today is the second day of counting the Omer. Jewish days begin at sundown and the traditional laws require you to count and say the blessing at night, when the day begins.
I’ve often wondered about this. My guess is that it is important to set your intentions for the day before going to sleep, so your unconscious has the holiest possible thoughts to interpret. This is also why my addiction to Facebook / staring at this phone at night is so dangerous.
In any event, today is Gevurah of Chesed. The discipline required in love. If you give too freely, you will lose yourself in another person’s wants and needs. You may smother the agency of your beloved. Clear boundaries are needed to ensure we can each thrive. This is also helpful in understanding that there are natural limits to how much any other person determines the course of our life. Parents, lovers, teachers, abusers, politicians — there are boundaries between them and the essence of our loving kindness.
May we have the courage to honor and glorify the boundaries of our love today.
Chesed of chesed. Lovingkindness of Lovingkindness. The purest essence of love.
Being of service. Being present to the holiness of each living soul and helping to elevate each soul to its highest potential.
I begin the journey of counting the omer – now with apps to ensure the busyness of parenthood and rabbinical school doesn’t derail my intention to meditate deeply on the spiritual values that connect me to the deepest parts of myself and the holiness that surrounds us all.
My beloved chose Chesed as his Hebrew name. If you know him, you have the privilege of experiencing the embodiment of chesed. May we all have the courage to express our souls and support the souls of those around us as completely and unselfishly as Chung-Mau Cheng. I strive everyday to live up to his example. ❤💝